Information on teen dating
Parents can also help teens better understand the feelings they experience and how to manage them.
Overall, dating during adolescence can pose both promise and problems.
In most cases of TDV, violence is used to get another to do what he/she wants, to gain power and control, to cause humiliation and to promote fear, and to retaliate against a partner (Foshee & Langwick, 2010).
An article published by the National Institute of Justice discusses current research on TDV and concludes that there are three key differences between adult and teen dating relationships: Because the dynamics of intimate partner abuse are different in adolescent and adult relationships, it is important not to apply an adult framework of intimate partner violence to teen dating violence. The opinions, findings, conclusions, and recommendations expressed in this publication/program/exhibition are those of the author(s) and do not necessarily reflect the views of the Department of Justice, Office on Violence Against Women.
That is, young people who are labeled as or considered to be violent and aggressive at any point in time are then assumed to be dangerous for the rest of their lives.
But if you notice that your teenager feels hurt, controlled or treated poorly, they may be in an abusive relationship.
Approximately 25 percent of teens report experiencing TDV annually (Noonan & Charles, 2009).
It can include emotional, verbal, physical and/or sexual abuse.
While this can be stressful at times for parents, it can be an even more stressful experience for teens.
Providing a safe and secure base for your teen to communicate with you openly about his or her relationships and helping your teen think about expectations and values in relationships can lead to a relationship smart teen!